Sunday, December 27, 2009

Missing and Guessing




We are missing and guessing these days about the death of our friend John. We had the pleasure of knowing John and be effected by him through the gloriousness and joyousness of his wife Claire. They were a tag team, duo who met and left you with a vibe of good and a vibe of happy. John was half of this equation. We are missing knowing that we won't be seeing him again and catching his goodness. We are worried about Claire, Van, and little Jane. We go tomorrow and will end the morning by giving her a mighty hug and celebrating John at the Lincoln Tap. The thing about people dying is sometimes you have time to wrap your mind around it or just at least "prepare". A sudden heart attack of a 42 year old really just doesn't allow anyone to do that. A sudden heart attack of a 42 year old with a four and a one year old, really doesn't do that. When people ask or think that question, "If you could have 3 wishes" I usually have a standard answers of, "A healthy everlasting life of fun and love for all those I care about ad know, three times" I keep that wish, but always remember at these times that I would like to add another, "The ability to bring them back and make it all a bad dream".
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